How you can stop individuals from “taking your wealth”
Often people ask me this -Tonja, how can you stop someone from making the most of you together with taking your hard earned wealth?
My answer isn’t often met with great enthusiasm since i think that NOBODY may take what rightfully is owned by you. I am a firm believer that precisely what is created for you is yours and you don't need to “fight” to safeguard it.
I believe that should you surrender for the process, circumstances might appear that you just wish didn’t however they are there for your leisure.
The issue is believing that pain may be for your leisure, that is certainly where trust is vital. When you trust the Universe to supply what exactly is created for you, you trust that it is for the best regardless of how it feels within the moment.
As soon as might be meant for that you grow, to understand, to comprehend, to get ready or another number of reasons.
In my book Twist & Trust (by Tonja Demoff), I discuss this detailed.
Surrender doesn’t mean sit back and relax, it indicates to allow for the process to unfold, do what you feel will be the right thing without allowing your ego mind to look at over. Go in your heart and your soul and seek the right action. Right Action is the action that will assist the higher good, create a situation to the highest and greatest solution for everyone. Then permit the Universe to adopt over, to create moving what exactly is to get.
One example from playing is:
I became associated with legislation suit that ended very badly personally and quite frankly no better for your plaintiff. Each of us was economically harmed often and neither has almost anything to show for your a lot of battle. I approached the plaintiff and extended my needed to make experience and utilize it in a positive way to help others know the way this can occur from to individuals who had been once friends, partners and investors together.
The individual declined the sale.
It did require her to be video and answer some questions , most probably, genuine and share her frustrations, anger etc… within a format that would give others information that might assist them to avoid what we had experienced.
Instead she would rather paint me in a extreme and outrageous negative light across social websites. Her jealousy, bitterness, anger and hatred is one area that's with me. How I choose to deal with it can be what shapes my experiences and what I gain knowledge from the situation is what shapes my character. That isn’t to say that it hasn’t hurt me, angered me, frustrated me etc… because it has. The point would it be has created me a stronger person, somebody of extra character, allowed me being more prone given it demonstrated humility in several “offshoots” in the situation if you will. I am greater than I had been if this started and I’ll be a little more than I had been if this ends- a few things i learned is the fact that I had been always “more than I thought”… I just had to come to be it.
NOBODY can take what is associated with you… their attempt is your blessing!